Be free of pre-set notions of good and bad, right and wrong, but allow your innate kindness flow to self and other. Then life becomes much less of an effort, and you can take action with a clear mind.
Good verbal communication should choose words that express the needs, feelings, and requests of the speaker, while also welcoming the other person to join into a dialogue without shaming or blaming them.
The opening up of rawness, whether it is loving feelings, hurt or anger, generosity, or loneliness, is an opportunity for growth. Rawness has its own trajectory, and can lead to new and unexpected growth and fulfillment.
For some of us, there has been so much information available about the COVID-19 pandemic that we can lose track of the primary information that we need to keep us, and the people around us, healthy. The part that is often missed, especially, is the aspect regarding overall health and health of the immune system.
Overall health and health of the immune system specifically are often given minimal attention, although now evidence is surfacing that exercise and vitamin levels, as well as other health factors, can be crucial in determining how serious one’s illness is once infected with novel coronavirus.
So, here are some suggestions that are worth repeating, and some of which may be new to you, the reader.
I am not an MD, but I have studied science and health in depth including science journals and research for the last fifty years, and hope these thoughts will be helpful to at least one person.
1) Take the well-known, but important, precautions:
Follow safety guidelines of wearing a mask when near others (protects others but to some degree, also protects oneself); wash hands with soap or equivalent after being in public and touching shared areas; avoid touching your face.
Avoid large gatherings, parties, concerts, etc. This includes avoiding events like wedding parties, funerals, etc. This is a time when health and survival deserve priority. I have heard of family members pressuring others to come to these gatherings, and as a result individuals get sick and in some cases die from COVID-19.
No one should try to make you feel guilty in order to pressure you to take part in dangerous activities.
If you feel it is important to be in relatively close contact with others, such as a close family member (with whom you are not living), or someone doing work where you live, or at a job, don’t be afraid to ask for precautions as needed, such as mutual mask-wearing and / or physical distance. Knowing the other person’s recent (two week) social behaviors could also be helpful to determine how careful to be. In other words, use good judgment.
image
2) Strengthen your health and immune system:
Eat a healthy diet, including fresh vegetables and fruits, and avoid excesses of high-sugar and refined carbohydrate items, which stress the metabolism and tend toward illnesses such as type 2 diabetes, a known comorbidity affecting COVID-19 outcomes.
Take supplements that can directly aid the immune system. This includes vitamins C and D3, as well as zinc and magnesium. This article has more information on research regarding Vitamin D and COVID-19.If you want a specific on this, daily I take American Health-brand Ester-C with D3 (1000 mg non-acidic C and 5000 IU D3), as well as Country Life-brand Calcium / Magnesium / Zinc (1000 mg / 500 mg / 50 mg). These go beyond the minimum recommended amounts of these items, but not into extremist ranges either; there is evidence that having more than the minimum can be helpful.
If possible, avoid extremes of stress, and get enough rest. Understood that it may be hard to control those aspects, but if we can do whatever is possible, it should also help with overall health and immune system strength.
Have meaningful exercise daily (or close to it). There is some evidence that exercise releases an antioxidant, EcSOD, and probably has other benefits for fighting the virus. In the comments below, you will find a link about the value of exercise for resisting COVID-19. This article focuses specifically on research regarding that antioxidant which, according to the combined research, helps fight diseases that have some common characteristics with COVID-19.
Avoid excessive alcohol, and probably stop smoking completely, if one is smoking anything, to protect the lungs. Especially stop smoking nicotine, to help circulatory health.
The above practices cannot hurt, and most likely are helpful. While working on other aspects of our lives, staying healthy and safe is still—or should be—a high priority. Please use good judgement, and protect yourself and those around you.
Societal systems need to change, to provide a more unifying and kinder environment which will support mental, physical, and financial health for all people in the United States. It can happen, but a lot of work and effort is needed. I hope each of us can be part of that.
You deserve it. You deserve a break. We all do. We do not need to add to the burden by being a self-critic or by adding difficulty to our own life. Let it go, whatever it is. Let it go, and experience and enjoy the moment.
We can live as a whole human being with our insight and energy working together, for a better life. Living in harmony each day leads to a sense of well-being, better relationships, and more success in daily life.